Friday, May 22, 2009

You Can Catch More Flies With Honey...

Than you can with that jacked up ass attitude you're sporting. Can SOMEONE... ANYONE... tell me why some women are the way they are? I swear if I hear one more woman tear "all men" down in one breath and complain about not having a "good man" because there "are none out there" I may just scream and pull my hair out strand by strand. (and if you know me you KNOW how precious my tresses are to me)

NOW, don't get me wrong... there are some trifling sons of bitches out there. You know, the ones that lie about the girlfriend (or worse wife) that's at home waiting on him to bring the pull ups he left 6 hours ago to retrieve from Baby's R Us that's now closed and has been for 2 hours.  Or the one who has the unsuspecting girlfriend who doesn't know they broke up because he doesn't really have the balls to tell her. Yeah them... 

HOWEVER that doesn't mean that ALL men are liars and trife. There are some GOOD men out there ladies but you can't see the sugar for the shit.

A small word of advice. Stop asking your girlfriends (who are probably lonely and dried up too) about why men do what they do or why they think the way they think. I'll be willing to bet if you pull a man to the side and ask him... you'll get more than your girlfriends speculations. Also, can we PLEASE stop with this "independent" talk? I mean yeah I GET that you can run the office from 9-5 but ya'll gone have to learn to HUMBLE yourselves sometimes.  It's ok to let a man be a man. It's ok to let him open your door. Hell it's ok for your "buy my dinner because I have a cooTch" ass to pay sometimes. 

Make a man feel like a man... show him you care... show him you need him (even if you don't) and I'll bet you all will be sending out save the dates in the near future. If not... keep doing what you're doing. It's working well for you, right?

*end rant*

Night!
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3 comments:

  1. Pop Goes The CityMay 24, 2009 at 3:52 PM

    Ok, I have been known to rant about there being a shortage of good men, but you make a good point. I really agree with the last few lines.

    Keeping in mind my personal struggles, I'll continue to rant as I am human and have a right to express my disgust. I will also give all those men I have yet to meet the benefit of the doubt and exclude them from my rants...LOL! I guess it's unfair to call all men asses...LOL!

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  2. MeMay 25, 2009 at 8:31 PM

    I try to tell my single friends this...and they just don't listen.

    This is why I have carats on my left hand and they don't. :)

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  3. TundeJune 1, 2009 at 8:43 AM

    i agree with you about letting a man be a man. some women these days don't know how to do that. taking advice from beyonce and shit. i bet she don't be talking that independent women or put a ring on it stuff when her and sean carter are alone. lol.

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